Discover his most powerful pleasure zones to make your sex life hotter than ever.
It’s no secret that women have some very specific pleasure points on their body, and hopefully your guy is no stranger to the clit and G-spot. Yet you might be surprised to know that the male body also has particular trigger spots that—when stimulated—will send him over the edge. “Orgasm is the release of sexual tension, and tension is created through gradually increasing and varying touch and pressure on his passion points,” says Claire Cavanah, co-founder of Babeland, a national chain of women-owned sex shops, and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex and Sex Toys 101. “Licking and biting with your mouth, then adding in heat or cold sensations by sucking on an ice cube or drinking hot tea will drive him wild.” To find out where to touch him to make his toes curl, click through our hot list.
The F Spot
How to find it: The frenulum is the spot where the glans meets the shaft on the underside of the penis just below the head, and the concentration of nerve endings here is sometimes compared to the female equivalent of the clitoris.
Make him go wild: “When giving him oral sex, let your tongue slide over that area,” Cavanah says. “With your hands, stroke it with your thumb while you move your fingers around the shaft.” To slowly build his arousal, go back and forth between stimulating his F spot and the less sensitive base of his penis.
The P Spot
How to find it: The male prostrate gland, which is located about three-quarters of a finger length inside his anus and feels sort of like a walnut towards the base of his penis, is a hotbed of nerve endings. “It’s similar to the female G spot, and gently massaging this area can give him a powerful orgasm,” Michaels says.
Make him go wild: Your best bet is to talk to your guy outside of the bedroom before you try to finger his anus so he doesn’t get any unwanted surprises. Try bringing it up during a romantic dinner by saying you love making love with him, and want to experiment even more. You might say that you heard stimulating his prostrate can trigger a really intense orgasm, and see if he would be down to try it later on. If your guy isn’t comfortable with you using your fingers to gently penetrate the area, there are other ways to stimulate his prostate. One way to do this is to give some loving to his perineum, or the smooth strip of skin between his testicles and anus. Since the prostate is internally located between the base of his penis and his anus so touching him on the outside of that area can externally stimulate the gland. “Have him lie on his back with his knees bend and legs spread apart, and then use your fist to apply even pressure to the area with quick vibration-like motions,” Michaels says.
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